went to party, got slightly buzzed, apparently that was enough to awaken the part of me that's capable of flirting without being hilariously awkward. hit it off well with a girl, chatted for a while, went to make a move, she informs me that she does not like men and instead likes girls. :(
i believe i said something like "so do I. what's not to like?"
that did not remedy the situation. :(
Hahaha you get points for that line though!
Anyway she's a super feminazi now and I can't help but think I may have partially caused that lol.
How can I make myself comfortable around women? I can interact with the opposite sex extremely well, but I can't get a "moving" relationship.
You just have to force yourself to act like you are until it permanently becomes part of your character
Seriously love you guys. Don't feel bad anymore at all, I realized I had no reason to, since I didn't do anything wrong. I'm happy now. Thanks all.
ive been texting this girl i met the other day and shes called and hung up really fast twice now
honestly i think she might just suck at texting or something and instead accidentally called, but its sorta weird
I often like to pretend I am a sex robot from the future, named Sexmotron, but I'm a poor judge of when it's appropriate to do so.
ok shes really talkative i dont want to text her anymore
plz phone go away
oh hey how r you,
i know its only 8 in the morning on a weekend BUT I JUST COULDN'T WAIT TO START TEXTING YOU
THIS TEXTING SESSION WILL BE FOURTEEN HOURS IN DURATION ROWRROWLLOWR
no, she was a genius
she was a kinky genius.
you let the best one go.
Well, she really wanted to see me the other day for some reason, so she came over and talked to me. She said she overreacted over being stressed over many things that had nothing to do with me and she was afraid of hurting me, so she wanted to get away from me. She said she doesn't understand why she gets like that, but she wants to figure out what it is and take care of it.
Of course, I told her I'd always be there for her even if she gets incredibly stressed out like that. I've always loved her, and she said that even though she may have been cold, she said she missed me every second and just didn't know what to do. I'm not the kind of person that can damn someone for something I truly know can't help it, because she's the sweetest person otherwise. My whole family loves her to death.
Anyway, we're back together, so we're happy. Doesn't mean I won't prove to her that I can't be responsible though, because she is right about the job thing regardless. She even said her manager will call me asap, so yeah, pretty awesome.
so i moved in with my friend who is a bit of a hippy. she said she's glad I moved in, because she had just broken up with her boyfriend. they'd been going out for about a year, and she broke up with him because he's been a bit of a dick. among other things, she told him she'd been feeling depressed and mentally unwell, but asked him not to tell anyone about it since she was (and is) getting help. he just needed to know, since they were together.
So he wrote a song about it, mentioning her name and relationship to him, and sang it to hundreds of people. People - do not do this. That is all.
I don't know if any of the stuff there it's true, since it's reddit after all, but the stories are fucked up, i know there's a lot of minorly depressed people on facepunch, maybe this can boost some morale i don't know.
I don't know why you would do this.
I somehow got roped into going to a student council meeting to argue the case for a starting an on-campus veteran's club. When I volunteered to help out with this, I was not made aware that this was a speaking role. It all seems a bit silly!
Silly in the sense that we have to go through student council, I mean. It's not like the clubs have funding or anything. They just sit around and do clubby things.
4 hours later she texts me saying that she has changed her mind because we are good friends and she doesn't want to risk that (me and my ex are nowhere near as close as we were before we went out).
Hello Advice thread, I would like some advice on this situation, cause I am feeling a little gloomy...
So, I was talking to this chick for about 3 weeks, and i decide to talk to her if she liked me the way i digged her. (you know, you like a chick, talk to her for awhile, see what happens go out...)
Now mind you, She had some of the prettiest eyes and a great personality, 2 key, she did not have that good of a body, but that is no problem, for the first 2 reasons is why I liked her. She is pretty book smart, but really street dumb. Some people thought she is ugly, i personally did not think she was ugly in the least bit, but she was no model.
Now picture me; (sorry if i boast, its just the way i thought my self) I play football, I am pretty decently built, i way about 195, I am relatively smart, taking honor and AP classes, but here is the kicker, (in my opinion, this is why i have never had a girl friend) i am about 5'4/5'5.
This is probably the only chick that i actually liked not just for her body (kind of shallow i suppose). Any way back to the story
So I talk to her on Friday about if she digged me like I digged her. Well she didn't, it hurt a little bit, but i shook it off. Now, you would think it would be awkward after that(i have 2 classes with her, sitting by her in both classes) but it wasn't, not even in the least bit, we still talked during class like that never happened. I am like ok, i deal with this, but that all changed what i figured out today...
Today, she was behind me talking to another chick about some guy... and I am like " alright, that's kind of douche to be talking about while I am right here...", but apparently it was about another guy she was texting and how they might be a thing. What made it bad was, while i was texting her those 3 weeks, she was talking to him about getting together so to speak. (they were talking as if they might date each other after a month of talking.).
So i decide to look this fucker up online to see what he looks like, and to be honest, he is not the worst looking dude ever (no homo.) and i get a little angry, how i start to think about how this might not have happened. well a scenario keeps playing in my head, that if i was taller, like 5'11/6'1, something might have happened between us. Now it is so VERY painful to talk to her during classes and shit knowing that she might hook up with a complete douche bag.
Now, that is problem one, how do i forget about her and move on, or go "hard mode" and take her from that douche bag, so to speak? As for problem two is, my height.
My height, in my personal opinion, is what is making me look unattractive, so to speak. i honestly think i have a decent face and body build, but its the height that is killing me. i do not really know what else to say about my height... i want you opinions on it, because it feels like no chick wants a short fucker, and it makes me think, what if i grow up alone and die alone?
If y'all can help on these problems, that would be FANTASTIC!
Also Tl;Dr height problems and girl problem.
this might seem weird now, but ive been dating my girlfriend for about 10 months now and besides the 2 months that i was in basic training, our relationship has been one long, unending conversation. texting all day, talking on the phone an hour or more a day, etc.
I texted a shitton with my ex, constantly the whole day. But honestly that was pretty annoying after a while mainly due to the fact that she thought I would do stuff behind her back whenever I ceased to write her after more than one hour.
Currently with my girlfriend we never write eachother that much, sometimes on skype but we also live like 10 minutes away. So it is a lot easier, I am so thankful for that.
Constant writing can be a tad annoying if you are kind of busy.
i text the girl im currently with a lot but we're both very understanding that we're busy people so it doesn't bother me and it doesn't bother her if one party neglects to answer, we just pick it up some other time.
i would love a girl to talk about my bowel movements with