1. Post #801
    The Devourer of Souls
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    July 2011
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    Ended up confessing to a girl that I like her. She said she would really like to get to know me better before anything, so I guess that went better than expected? I never see her though so that might be a bit hard.
    If you want to get to know each other then don't just wait for opportunities to get to see her, invite her out.
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  2. Post #802
    Hello everyone! I would like you to know that I am not a fan of nudity!!!
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    May 2009
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    Say I'm at a social occasion, party, outing with friends, etc
    So I meet some girl, get talking, we discuss what we do, get along well. Both go to the same uni as it happens.

    Now of course it's a party, so I move about and stuff.

    Say she seems interesting. I want to go talk to her again. I've sorta' used up all the more "one-size-fits-all" things to say. Where do I go from here? Preferably without sounding like an interrogation.
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  3. Post #803
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    May 2009
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    you say hey it was nice talking to you at that party, you seem interesting, let's hang out

    or some variation
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  4. Post #804
    Hello everyone! I would like you to know that I am not a fan of nudity!!!
    JgcxCub's Avatar
    May 2009
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    you say hey it was nice talking to you at that party, you seem interesting, let's hang out

    or some variation
    No I mean say I see her again at the same party and want to talk to her more, build up what I can at the time
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  5. Post #805
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    May 2009
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    hey you seem pretty cool would you like a drink i promise i did not roofie it

    hey let's go outside it smells and it's crowded in here

    hey i just met you and this is crazy but here's my number so call me maybe


    just figure out a way to actually talk to her, bro. ideally in a place where there isn't a huge amount of distractions but not enough of a secluded place that she'll get a rape-y vibe (especially at a party)
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  6. Post #806
    The Devourer of Souls
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    July 2011
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    Say I'm at a social occasion, party, outing with friends, etc
    So I meet some girl, get talking, we discuss what we do, get along well. Both go to the same uni as it happens.

    Now of course it's a party, so I move about and stuff.

    Say she seems interesting. I want to go talk to her again. I've sorta' used up all the more "one-size-fits-all" things to say. Where do I go from here? Preferably without sounding like an interrogation.
    It works better if its the same convo, but if you have discussed classes or whatever standard stuff, thing she likes just try building off any little hints for other things she mentions. You could try asking her about other people at the partly like "you know anyone else here?" "yeah ___ he is in my economics class" and just sorta ask about that person until you grab something you can ask them about themselves again, or something that can relate to you and continue the conversation that way.
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  7. Post #807
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    Ended up confessing to a girl that I like her. She said she would really like to get to know me better before anything, so I guess that went better than expected? I never see her though so that might be a bit hard.
    for future reference don't confess your feelings
    if you like someone just ask them out, confessing to them doesn't get you anywhere and it generally creates a very awkward situation. she even responded by saying she'd like to get to know you better, if you had just asked her out instead you would be doing just that.
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  8. Post #808
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    one of my favorite podcasts was discussing this at length on monday...i should try to upload it somewhere or something.
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  9. Post #809
    The Devourer of Souls
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    July 2011
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    one of my favorite podcasts was discussing this at length on monday...i should try to upload it somewhere or something.
    If it was a podcast im assuming it was already online somewhere?
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  10. Post #810
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    May 2009
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    true, but only the last bit of it matters. i'll see if I can find the place it starts

    Edited:

    found it. i don't think i can link to specific times, so just skip to 51:00

    Edited:

    or 51:20 or something, they're talking about crane kicks and beating the shit out of flamingos at 51:00

    Edited:

    also i think it's like 10+ minutes long, now that i think about it

    but it's solid advice

    Edited:

    also it becomes not as good advice at like 1:00:00
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  11. Post #811
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    October 2010
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    If you want to get to know each other then don't just wait for opportunities to get to see her, invite her out.
    I did already. We established that school wasn't working well since we have no classes together and I never saw her in the halls or anything, so I asked her if she was free this weekend. So far, she isn't sure if she's busy or not. I don't want to look too deep into it, but I know just about everything has another meaning, so..
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  12. Post #812
    The Devourer of Souls
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    July 2011
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    I did already. We established that school wasn't working well since we have no classes together and I never saw her in the halls or anything, so I asked her if she was free this weekend. So far, she isn't sure if she's busy or not. I don't want to look too deep into it, but I know just about everything has another meaning, so..
    Ask her what she is busy with, or check up the next day if she knows if she can yet. If she keeps brushing it aside then I would start looking at alternate meanings, wouldn't fuss about it immediately.
    If you have less of a busy schedule you could try asking her when is good for her instead.
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  13. Post #813
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    January 2009
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    Ask her what she is busy with, or check up the next day if she knows if she can yet. If she keeps brushing it aside then I would start looking at alternate meanings, wouldn't fuss about it immediately.
    If you have less of a busy schedule you could try asking her when is good for her instead.
    I don't know if I would ask what she's doing if he just met her, it might seem too forward, maybe I'm not reading the context right though. How and when did you start liking her, like how did you have enough contact to tell her you liked her?
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  14. Post #814
    The Devourer of Souls
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    July 2011
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    I don't know if I would ask what she's doing if he just met her, it might seem too forward, maybe I'm not reading the context right though. How and when did you start liking her, like how did you have enough contact to tell her you liked her?
    I ask people I dont even know what they are up to on the weekend, thats pretty standard idle conversation? Can just ask as an interested question:
    "Hey wanna hang out this weekend?"
    "Might not be able to im busy"
    "Oh what with :)?"
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  15. Post #815
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    January 2007
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    @_@ i found out i like to cock block people

    i know these dudes are interested in my friend because of the way they're acting and talking with her and she looks so uninterested and then i just come by and then start to tease her and then she just stops talking to them and start talking to me and then while i feel bad, i feel so good too

    it gives me a rush
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  16. Post #816
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    March 2007
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    wow holy shit i saw this on facebook after someone liked it, absolutely everything that is wrong with the sort of "friendzone" mindset all in one astounding image

    like i want to quote the worst parts but i would end up quoting the entire thing so instead just bask in this shit

    Edited:

    actually i'll bite the bullet and say the single worst part is "rightfully complains about the aloof and disinterested nature of most girls"
    if guys like that weren't so disgustingly self-centered and entitled maybe they would see how fucked they are
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  17. Post #817
    The Union Jack would look a shit ton better with a Hammer and Sickle in the middle of it
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    November 2007
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    that image looks like satire

    it's satire right?
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  18. Post #818
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    Dennab
    January 2006
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    almost all of the ones on the right category describe liz lemon, someone every woman should aspire to
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  19. Post #819
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    May 2007
    2,567 Posts
    hey you seem pretty cool would you like a drink i promise i did not roofie it
    hey girl you seem pretty cool want to hear my rape joke
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  20. Post #820
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    October 2008
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    Yeah thats a great idea of talking to a women put a suspicion in her mind she probably didnt have before
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  21. Post #821
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    wow holy shit i saw this on facebook after someone liked it, absolutely everything that is wrong with the sort of "friendzone" mindset all in one astounding image

    like i want to quote the worst parts but i would end up quoting the entire thing so instead just bask in this shit

    Edited:

    actually i'll bite the bullet and say the single worst part is "rightfully complains about the aloof and disinterested nature of most girls"
    if guys like that weren't so disgustingly self-centered and entitled maybe they would see how fucked they are
    Daniel Brühl is sexy as fuck.
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  22. Post #822
    Hi Jo
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    February 2009
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    wow holy shit i saw this on facebook after someone liked it, absolutely everything that is wrong with the sort of "friendzone" mindset all in one astounding image

    like i want to quote the worst parts but i would end up quoting the entire thing so instead just bask in this shit

    Edited:

    actually i'll bite the bullet and say the single worst part is "rightfully complains about the aloof and disinterested nature of most girls"
    if guys like that weren't so disgustingly self-centered and entitled maybe they would see how fucked they are
    its more than just wrong its flat out sexist
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  23. Post #823
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    March 2007
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    that image looks like satire

    it's satire right?
    there's too much that makes it seem like it's being serious, and even if it is satire, the people spreading it around facebook are completely serious
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  24. Post #824
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    March 2011
    5,259 Posts
    What would be a good movie for a first date? (At the cinema, if we don't find any good theater shows or conserts)
    Current movies are:
    Oz
    Wreck it ralph
    Silver Linings Playbook
    Life of Pi
    (And some more I don't know anything about including some swedish movies)
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  25. Post #825
    diaoyudao shi ZHONGGUO de
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    December 2007
    4,328 Posts
    Try to reconsider going to the movies as a first date. It's hard to make a move because it's pretty early, and you can't talk because it's a movie. The only times when you can get to know the person is before and after the movie.
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  26. Post #826
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    May 2009
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    yeah. if you insist on a movie, go to dinner first or something.

    also of all those wreck it ralph is the safest, IMO
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  27. Post #827
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    March 2011
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    Movies was one of her suggestions, among theater and concert. I'd love to take her out to dinner aswell so I'm going to ask if she want's do that before/after.
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  28. Post #828
    MEGA SENPAI KAWAII UGUU~~ =^_^=
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    September 2008
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    wow holy shit i saw this on facebook after someone liked it, absolutely everything that is wrong with the sort of "friendzone" mindset all in one astounding image

    like i want to quote the worst parts but i would end up quoting the entire thing so instead just bask in this shit

    Edited:

    actually i'll bite the bullet and say the single worst part is "rightfully complains about the aloof and disinterested nature of most girls"
    if guys like that weren't so disgustingly self-centered and entitled maybe they would see how fucked they are
    Probably the most telling thing about it is that the image on the left does not say "unable to find a relationship", but instead says "unable to find sex". Can't get much more condescending with that 'rightfully' later on, it's horrible.
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  29. Post #829
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    October 2008
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    It's my birthday

    practice your socialness by wishing me a good one
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  30. Post #830
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    January 2011
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    I guess I'll tell my story...

    So I attended a music school in an art school, and I was really down with my Math grade. I ended up in one of the "worst" math groups (Practical Math). I met this lovely girl that is like a nerdy girl that is a videogamer, (she specificly hates "VIDEOGAMERGIRLS" because they have given her a bad reputation) and she is going on drawing subject line. I got to know her and I slowly gained more and more feeling for her. She started to act like more as a bitch towards me around Christmas last year and I didn't mind it too much. I still had the strong feeling and started to gain more interest to know her better. As a guy, I'm the careful "wait until shit's ready" before I take any chances. (After all, I don't wanna ruin the friendship we already have.)
    I was with her and some of her friends last week and I was going to a dance concert to see another girl in my math class. I really felt happy to spend time with her. And on Monday I got a message from her on skype. I chat and "snapchat" her ever so often to keep contact since she is living around an hour from me, and I barely see her besides math class. She then apologized for being a bitch towards me and I felt like this might be it. The hope was suddenly crushed though, because when she went into detail she said the she didn't want me to get romantic feels for her, when she knew she wouldn't return such favors. Now, for the last 3-4 days, I've had horrible sleep patterns, a feel of emptiness and general exhaustion, because she made me happy. Every chat message she sent, every snapchat message she sent me got my hopes up. And to top it of, when she said this, I was hearing my favorite song. (It's norwegian but the english lyrics translate to : "And when I wake up, I'm woken every morning of a black deprivation". The song is "Markedet bestemmer" by a Western Norwegian band named Kaizers Orchestra)
    Now I listen to this, every time, on repeat often many times before I fell asleep for these days, and then ending up waking up because of a dream with her in it, around 5.am every morning since she confessed. I didn't cry, I just felt like every part of my facade just crumbled into a huge pit of mixed feelings.

    So yeah, that's been my whole week. It feels good to tell someone sometimes...

    Edited:

    It's my birthday

    practice your socialness by wishing me a good one
    Are you in the eastern part of the world? If so, happy birthday with 22nd of March. That is a great day because that's my birthday as well Have a nice day man! (If not, 21st is a great day too)
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  31. Post #831
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    October 2008
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    I guess I'll tell my story...

    So I attended a music school in an art school, and I was really down with my Math grade. I ended up in one of the "worst" math groups (Practical Math). I met this lovely girl that is like a nerdy girl that is a videogamer, (she specificly hates "VIDEOGAMERGIRLS" because they have given her a bad reputation) and she is going on drawing subject line. I got to know her and I slowly gained more and more feeling for her. She started to act like more as a bitch towards me around Christmas last year and I didn't mind it too much. I still had the strong feeling and started to gain more interest to know her better. As a guy, I'm the careful "wait until shit's ready" before I take any chances. (After all, I don't wanna ruin the friendship we already have.)
    I was with her and some of her friends last week and I was going to a dance concert to see another girl in my math class. I really felt happy to spend time with her. And on Monday I got a message from her on skype. I chat and "snapchat" her ever so often to keep contact since she is living around an hour from me, and I barely see her besides math class. She then apologized for being a bitch towards me and I felt like this might be it. The hope was suddenly crushed though, because when she went into detail she said the she didn't want me to get romantic feels for her, when she knew she wouldn't return such favors. Now, for the last 3-4 days, I've had horrible sleep patterns, a feel of emptiness and general exhaustion, because she made me happy. Every chat message she sent, every snapchat message she sent me got my hopes up. And to top it of, when she said this, I was hearing my favorite song. (It's norwegian but the english lyrics translate to : "And when I wake up, I'm woken every morning of a black deprivation". The song is "Markedet bestemmer" by a Western Norwegian band named Kaizers Orchestra)
    Now I listen to this, every time, on repeat often many times before I fell asleep for these days, and then ending up waking up because of a dream with her in it, around 5.am every morning since she confessed. I didn't cry, I just felt like every part of my facade just crumbled into a huge pit of mixed feelings.

    So yeah, that's been my whole week. It feels good to tell someone sometimes...

    Edited:



    Are you in the eastern part of the world? If so, happy birthday with 22nd of March. That is a great day because that's my birthday as well Have a nice day man! (If not, 21st is a great day too)
    Yep, its the 22nd. Happy birthday to you too!

    In regards to your problem I'm sorry to hear about it - sucks but you'll move on in time. Just remember to be civil to her, it's not her fault and too many people in this thread post shitloads of abuse at girls who have rejected them
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  32. Post #832
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    Just a way some people deal with it I guess..

    I remember I wanted too once, but we just talked shit through and ended it nicelly.
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  33. Post #833
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    Dennab
    January 2006
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    It's my birthday

    practice your socialness by wishing me a good one
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  34. Post #834
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    October 2008
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    so kawaii u baka gaijins wld nt undrstand uguu~

    I didn't get a turntable yet though so im sad

    but my girlfriend took me to a pizza dinner last night then we went to her house to meet her new puppy

    her family are literally awful at dogs in a hilarious way, its name is interchangeably 'bambi' or 'babygirl' and it has its own bed that was large enough that my girlfriend fell asleep in it when they first got it and it bites
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  35. Post #835
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    March 2007
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    excellent, youve leveled up tpain ur now a lvl 3 socialite choose ur new skill

    a. tremors - shake uncontrollably only in presence of pretty girls
    b. brainiac - 33% chance someone asks you for answer to homework question per week
    c. creyesis averted - now able to make eye contact with close friends (i wouldnt take this one u dont have a close friend yet)
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  36. Post #836
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    May 2009
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    a does not seem like a good choice

    is there a hidden bonus
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  37. Post #837
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    March 2007
    3,963 Posts
    yes

    it is better than shaking uncontrollably in the presence of all girls
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  38. Post #838
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    Dennab
    January 2006
    39,999 Posts
    a does not seem like a good choice

    is there a hidden bonus
    have you ever watched anime dudes who tremble and shake uncontrollably usually get all the anime princesses
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  39. Post #839
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    October 2008
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    But that's because of their tortured past, not because they suck at the ladies
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  40. Post #840
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    March 2007
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    So I've got this guy in my course that has all the indications of being in a serious depression or with some kind of mental disability.

    When you first look at him, you take him as a normal guy, about 28/30 years old, already with some white hairs on his head, untill during class you start noticing he has some wacky crazy interventions during class.

    Like interrupting mid class to ask the professor's random crazy shit that is received by class with both giggles and confusion.

    At first, one may think that he's just some arrogant idiot that thinks he's the center of the world but the more you look at him, the more you know he needs help and that he isn't right.


    So now some guys in my college's cafeteria made a film (which I'm not going to show you in respect for the person in question) in which he appears sitting alone eating lunch, and when a colleague tried to sit next to him, he throws a cafeteria knife on the table on his direction.
    This was clearly a sign that there is something seriously wrong with the person in question.

    However, since everyone finds this funny, the video went viral and it's now published on my degree's facebook page for everyone to see and comment, and the nature of the comments is barbaric, since everyone's making fun and teasing the guy.

    I don't agree with this, I mean, sure the video is funny, I confess, but from there to publishing it, goes a long way. I never thought I'd see cyber bullying in university but here it is.

    Also when I commented there trying to make them see how unwise it was to make fun of him in public, they started making fun of me, so I quickly removed all my comments.

    I'm taking action towards this. I'm mailing the degree's regent about this but I don't know if that's the right person to talk to about this.

    He's clearly not right in the head and needs mental help. If he sees this it may cause more damage than it's worth.
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