What's your favourite textiles for hats? If you're a hatter.
What's your favourite textiles for hats? If you're a hatter.
You call it a myth, yet accept it. The only difference, is you don't like it being called a "friend zone"
why would i accept it? i used to think it was a real thing. it gave me an excuse for sexual failure and an excuse to give up. but i've broken out of the non-existent zone so many times now i refuse to believe in it. it's just an explanation for idiots who can't accept that anything other than bad timing ruined their attempt to get pussy
Also, it seems like you refuse to accept it, but refusing to accept something is saying something is real. The whole reason as to why it happens, getting "friendzoned" is wrong. You can call it what ever, but it still exists.
"oh no i left it too long to ask her out so now i've been friendzoned oh well i just timed it badly"
"DUDE ask her out RIGHT NOW because if you leave it too long and mess up the TIMING then you'll get friendzoned"
no it's just not real in the sense that most people believe it to be. it's not a zone. it's not a physical thing. it's nothing. it's not worth talking about at all. sometimes you are friends with someone and sometimes you will remain friends and sometimes you will get to shag her anyway
giving it this official title of irrefutable truth puts a label on it that is completely unnecessary
again, it's just an excuse for idiots. it's like those stupid non-existent mental conditions with the really wishy-washy symptoms like "do you feel sad sometimes?" that gives nerds on forums an excuse to say "I SUFFER WITH X Y AND Z AND THEREFORE I CAN'T TALK TO GIRLS"
seith considering you're the guy who says it's possible to be BRO TEAM ALPHA MALE MK.2 i'm really surprised you're championing the friendzone as a legitimate thing
If you leave asking out a girl for too long, she'll think of you as a friend because any confident guy who wanted to go out with her would've have done it sooner, she's not categorising you into "potential love interest" but into "cool stuff I did with friends".
Yes you can still fuck your friends (alcohol comes to mind) and no, the zone doesn't actually exist, it's just a blanket term for waiting too long to ask out a girl, bad timing.
We aren't condoning people labelling themselves with disorders nor do we believe in it.
Besides, the kind of guy who waits a long time to ask a girl out would be the type of guy who confesses all his feelings after he's knew the girl for a while and make it all awkward. Bare in mind we're talking relationships here, not just fucking.
that makes much more sense than seith's cryptic posts thank you
1. Timing can be a part of the problem, but the "timing" results from poor understanding and weak male behavior. It's not the sole reason for why people become "friends" with a woman instead of lovers.
2. While you don't want to accept it as just something unbreakable, undeniable, it is still something you realize exists, just in a different term . I say this because sometimes you are friends with someone and sometimes you will remain friends and sometimes you will get to shag her anyway indicates that even though you refuse to accept it and won't quit just because there's such a thing, you still believe it. Refusing to accept is saying something exists, so you can't just say it doesn't exist when you obviously believe it.
3. Never realized people used it as an excuse actually, thanks.
4. I am saying it exists, not that I use it as an excuse.
that makes a lot of sense actually
Ah crap yesterday at my friend's party I had to take a piss so I went outside and instantly unzipped my pants. After realising I was pissing in the middle of his terrace garden I decided to walk to the hedge while I was still pissing. I walked past a few poeple and continued pissing. Then suddenly someone shoved me and when I looked back I realised I pissed over the shoes ( And maybe a part of her legs. I don't know for sure ) of my friend's girlfriend withoud realising it... She was mad as hell and everyone already noticed that she was not happy that night. I instantly panicked and couldn't mumble anything than sorry but my friends all started to laugh really hard. The girl cycled away crying but my friends didn't take it seriously and only made puns about the situation ( That was the drop that makes the bucket flow-over! ). Then my friend came outside, told me to shut up and not think about it because they already had problems and went after his girlfriend.
They broke up the next day...
Would any normal person start crying and running away over someone pissing on their shoes? Either she's mentally unstable or she was really stressed out over other major problems, none of which were your fault.
Seith beat me to it
I need advice:
I'm still virgin. Sometimes because of hormones i want to find prostitute and fuck her, but after masturbation, I'm loosing all my interest on sexual satisfaction. And continuing my work(study or programing). It happens nearly 3 times per week.
My brain's some part says: Go find prostitute, and fuck her, it will be awesome.
Other part is like: No man, you can just masturbate, and save your virginity to your love.
What you think i should do?
Why were you walking around while you were pissing
Should've just stood in the middle of the party and spun around while pissing for maximum effect
Successfully hooked up with a beautiful red head last night, gum swap and all. Everything is copacetic.
Something about "she cycled away crying" is fucken hilarious
That whole story was pretty amusing
although i don't believe they broke up because of piss on some shoes.. UNLESS
She liked having pissed shoes and the guy couldn't deal with it so they broke up.
if you really have to tell her, just tell her later when things work out between you
there is literally no reason to tell her now unless you want to have a chance of alienating her
Jo I've loved you for 5 years and I stare at you in class
do you love me too? :))))
i feel like shit ATM
don't know what it is but talking to people just really annoys me and I think I'm coming down with a cold
Monday Monday Monday, I am so asking out Cute Well-Spoken Girl. I got a haircut and trimmed the heck out of my beard and am feeling quite confident in my appearance, and I'm just gonna let that roll over into wooing her.
What a fantastic day.
First saving a world of boredom by going out shopping with my best friends GF, while he was out looking at bikes and cars with my dad. Then we meet up at the mall.
Went rent a movie.
I buy some candy which I then regretted and donated to my best friends brother.
Then having an hour long run followed by a hot sauna. After that I check in steam if the girl would be there and if she would like to watch a movie with me and my friends. But just as I log in her status was "last online 30 seconds ago", so I tought that she has something planned for tonight.
While having dinner I get texted by one of my friends whom is bored and I suggest him that he joins in with our movie night. So I jump in my car and head off to pick him up and on our way back to my friends house where were supposed to watch the movie; The girl calls up and says that she has nothing to do. So we head towards her place and pick her up.
When watching the movie she gets texted by one of our mutual friends (the guy whom I told about my feelings towards her), she shows me the text which is implying that he is really damn drunk. She complains about her saldo being low, so I make the reply with my phone to the guy. Telling him about the situation at the place.
Get this as an answer: "Yeeeaaaa, I'm at my bro's place, heading home soon. Would have told her about how you feel towards her, have you totally get some."
(Now do you guys at FP think that third-party help would be good to have? He is a really close friend of hers.)
Movie goes on, watching a horror movie together with friends is a good source of laughs, laughing at mistakes and making references to videogames and other movies.
After one and a half movies and an episode of standup comedy, we leave. I drop them off at their places and head home.
And then I go write about it on the internet.
My day in short.
personally i dont like bringing in 3rd party help and you should be more than capable of doing it yourself. a 3rd party doesnt make things any easier, and having them tell the girl how you feel about them is just as bad as you doing it. just make a move.