1. Post #2761
    Gold Member
    Dark_Light's Avatar
    May 2007
    2,598 Posts
    Wtf I thought Garry found my birthday via my FB and wrote that message just for me
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  2. Post #2762
    Huge Faggot #2
    GoldenGnome's Avatar
    November 2007
    5,149 Posts
    You're a better man than I, dark light. If I'm in a minority of people in a conversation on a dull topic, I'll inconspicuously leave 9 times out of 10.
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  3. Post #2763
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    Seith's Avatar
    August 2006
    3,334 Posts
    You're a better man than I, dark light. If I'm in a minority of people in a conversation on a dull topic, I'll inconspicuously leave 9 times out of 10.
    You are such a badass.
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  4. Post #2764
    Huge Faggot #2
    GoldenGnome's Avatar
    November 2007
    5,149 Posts
    I don't really understand the point of that under handed remark Seith. I already acknowledged it was a flaw.
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  5. Post #2765
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    Seith's Avatar
    August 2006
    3,334 Posts
    I don't really understand the point of that under handed remark Seith. I already acknowledged it was a flaw.
    You already acknowledged it was a flaw?? Change it then.
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  6. Post #2766
    Huge Faggot #2
    GoldenGnome's Avatar
    November 2007
    5,149 Posts
    fuq u man u cnt chang meee
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  7. Post #2767
    DeadKiller987's Avatar
    September 2010
    1,070 Posts
    This is going to sound odd, but how do I deal with school? Not the learning part, I actually like doing that. I mean all the people that are there. I try to socialize and I even have a little circle of friends, but I don't really have anything in common with any of them, nor are they good company. I usually just stand around in the classroom during recess and think about various sorts of crap.

    I have some friends who only want to talk about that ONE game EVERY SINGLE DAY, or sometimes beer. Some other 'friends' are out right immature assholes who take a stab at me every opportunity they get. I don't call them my friends, but they just kinda call themselves that and everyone assumes I agree. Then theres that guy who keeps reminding me how gay AND black people are going to make the world end this year or some other bullshit. The racist religious homophobe guy.

    I can't even seem to find people who I want to be friends with. Not only at school, but anywhere. I tried going outside, walking around, but it's as if I'm the only person outside all the time. So instead I just lock myself in my room, sometimes confiding in my online buddies who all seem to be much better people than those I know IRL, which makes sense since I only chat to people who are at least the tiniest bit like me. I wanna find friends and I don't know how. I wanna talk to different people, but I can't find any who want to talk to me.
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  8. Post #2768
    Thoughtless's Avatar
    September 2011
    689 Posts
    This is going to sound odd, but how do I deal with school? Not the learning part, I actually like doing that. I mean all the people that are there. I try to socialize and I even have a little circle of friends, but I don't really have anything in common with any of them, nor are they good company. I usually just stand around in the classroom during recess and think about various sorts of crap.

    I have some friends who only want to talk about that ONE game EVERY SINGLE DAY, or sometimes beer. Some other 'friends' are out right immature assholes who take a stab at me every opportunity they get. I don't call them my friends, but they just kinda call themselves that and everyone assumes I agree. Then theres that guy who keeps reminding me how gay AND black people are going to make the world end this year or some other bullshit. The racist religious homophobe guy.

    I can't even seem to find people who I want to be friends with. Not only at school, but anywhere. I tried going outside, walking around, but it's as if I'm the only person outside all the time. So instead I just lock myself in my room, sometimes confiding in my online buddies who all seem to be much better people than those I know IRL, which makes sense since I only chat to people who are at least the tiniest bit like me. I wanna find friends and I don't know how. I wanna talk to different people, but I can't find any who want to talk to me.
    Do you have one old friend, that you like, you find that similar people stick together, and you can get a decant friendship group just by hanging out with friends of friends and not being too much of a knob.
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  9. Post #2769
    Hi Jo
    Jo The Shmo's Avatar
    February 2009
    22,885 Posts
    You already acknowledged it was a flaw?? Change it then.
    its such an incredibly minor flaw that theres no reason to even bother changing it unless you can't live with the fact that you aren't perfect
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  10. Post #2770
    Huge Faggot #2
    GoldenGnome's Avatar
    November 2007
    5,149 Posts
    yea really besides i can't be assed to be interested in the minutiae of everyone's daily life and hobbies.
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  11. Post #2771
    kill yourself
    Protocol7's Avatar
    June 2006
    25,841 Posts
    yea really besides i can't be assed to be interested in the minutiae of everyone's daily life and hobbies.
    nobody really cares about the minutiae of anyone's lives

    it's just part of conversation, get over it
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  12. Post #2772
    DeadKiller987's Avatar
    September 2010
    1,070 Posts
    Do you have one old friend, that you like, you find that similar people stick together, and you can get a decant friendship group just by hanging out with friends of friends and not being too much of a knob.
    I don't have any friends whose friends I'd want to be friends with tho :S
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  13. Post #2773
    Gold Member
    GURREN LAGANN's Avatar
    December 2011
    827 Posts
    How is college life? I'm 18 and have never had a girlfriend or any some casual girl friends in my life.
    Graduating in a month and I hope to meet some one special in community college, as well as some friends.
    I sure am a mess.
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  14. Post #2774
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    Dennab
    January 2006
    40,352 Posts
    nothing will change if you don't change yourself.
    college doesn't magically change your situation, it's just an opportunity to change yourself.
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  15. Post #2775
    Gold Member
    Erector Beast's Avatar
    March 2007
    4,207 Posts
    You are such a badass.
    that was so incredibly stupid to say

    like, maybe if he was actually trying to sound cool. but it wasnt even close. lower your head for a while now
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  16. Post #2776
    kill yourself
    Protocol7's Avatar
    June 2006
    25,841 Posts
    college is only different because people won't make it a point to judge you

    you still have to put forth effort for good things to happen
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  17. Post #2777
    Godline's Avatar
    February 2010
    1,255 Posts
    that was so incredibly stupid to say

    like, maybe if he was actually trying to sound cool. but it wasnt even close. lower your head for a while now
    Fuck off back to boot camp.

    Protocol when did people make it a point to judge you in school 16/18?
    Was there some sort of brain process / mentality I missed out on?
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  18. Post #2778
    Spirit Guide
    Big Dumb American's Avatar
    March 2009
    17,077 Posts
    Last year, my dad brought home two unattractive older women from a bar. My friends were all there to witness it. I was disappointed in him, considering the quality of the stumbling, ill-spoken, droopy cougar women he brought home, but he looked me in the eye and said, "son, a man's gotta eat."

    I learned a valuable lesson that day. I'm not sure about what, exactly, but I definitely took something out of it.
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  19. Post #2779
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    Dennab
    January 2006
    40,352 Posts
    that's weird.
    i mean just the fact that you have such a strong interest in "the quality" of the women he brings home.

    do you also watch him have sex and rate him on his performance?
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  20. Post #2780
    Spirit Guide
    Big Dumb American's Avatar
    March 2009
    17,077 Posts
    Yes, certainly.
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  21. Post #2781
    Gold Member
    Turnips5's Avatar
    January 2007
    7,132 Posts
    nothing will change if you don't change yourself.
    college doesn't magically change your situation, it's just an opportunity to change yourself.
    it is a hell of an opportunity though
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  22. Post #2782
    Spirit Guide
    Big Dumb American's Avatar
    March 2009
    17,077 Posts
    Why is that weird! They were droopy old bar flies. It was a look at an unpleasant side of things that I hadn't considered. Nobody wants to think of their dad as some unscrupulous old hornbeast! Dads are supposed to be professorly and principled.
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  23. Post #2783
    Hi Jo
    Jo The Shmo's Avatar
    February 2009
    22,885 Posts
    that's weird.
    i mean just the fact that you have such a strong interest in "the quality" of the women he brings home.

    do you also watch him have sex and rate him on his performance?
    nice, i see the way you twisted around the meaning of your post mid-sentence as if you were actually being perfectly clear the whole time that you think bda is weird!
    great passive-aggressive LA-style post, youre truly on your way to becoming maverick or seith
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  24. Post #2784
    Awesome Member
    Dennab
    January 2006
    40,352 Posts
    Why is that weird! They were droopy old bar flies. It was a look at an unpleasant side of things that I hadn't considered. Nobody wants to think of their dad as some unscrupulous old hornbeast! He's supposed to be professorly and principled.
    my dad bailed on me so i don't even know anything about dads.
    they look weird though, dads creep me out.
    just imagining a dad is weird for me.
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  25. Post #2785
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    Dennab
    January 2006
    40,352 Posts
    nice, i see the way you twisted around the meaning of your post mid-sentence as if you were actually being perfectly clear the whole time that you think bda is weird!
    great passive-aggressive LA-style post, youre truly on your way to becoming maverick or seith
    i'm just teasing him, BDA is a cool bloke.
    and he knows he's weird.
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  26. Post #2786
    kill yourself
    Protocol7's Avatar
    June 2006
    25,841 Posts
    Protocol when did people make it a point to judge you in school 16/18?
    Was there some sort of brain process / mentality I missed out on?
    Well, my high school was in a suburb and my university is a relatively inexpensive one, so I went from being grouped around a bunch of spoiled kids to being grouped with people who share the same goal I do - getting a piece of paper.

    So I had obnoxious cliques of white girls with iPhones in high school, and people were far more judgmental. Maybe cause I was a socially awkward fuckwit in my underclassmen years, but still. People are much more tolerant in college.
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  27. Post #2787
    Spirit Guide
    Big Dumb American's Avatar
    March 2009
    17,077 Posts
    My mom bailed on me, but I think I'd still understand why somebody might be uncomfortable with the knowledge that his mom tag teams sweaty, misshapen truckers.
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  28. Post #2788
    Awesome Member
    Dennab
    January 2006
    40,352 Posts
    My mom bailed on me, but I think I'd still understand why somebody might be uncomfortable with the knowledge that their mom tag teams sweaty, misshapen truckers.
    oh i just don't want to know in the first place, whatever she needs to do that's her business and i'm totally fine if we never ever talk about it.
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  29. Post #2789
    Huge Faggot #2
    GoldenGnome's Avatar
    November 2007
    5,149 Posts
    I'm seeing this girl a lot now, and my friend is getting all jealous and being a child about it because I'm not constantly at his beck and call anymore. I know you're supposed to put your friends first but he is making it very difficult. He never makes an effort to make plans with me, but then when he texts me or something five minutes before a taco bell run he has a hissy fit when I'm not available, because I've made friends with the girl. It's very frustrating because I'm trying my hardest to NOT be that guy who ditches his friends for a girl, but it's almost like he WANTS to hate me for being with her. What do?

    Edited:

    It might worthy to note that he already has a prejudice against her, as she's heavily involved in the theater and he assumes all theater people are "faggots."
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  30. Post #2790
    It might worthy to note that he already has a prejudice against her, as she's heavily involved in the theater and he assumes all theater people are "faggots."
    Your friend is a worthless human being. Jettison him into space.
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  31. Post #2791
    Huge Faggot #2
    GoldenGnome's Avatar
    November 2007
    5,149 Posts
    And today I mentioned to him that I'd catch up with him tonight, but I didn't hear from him at all until nowish. By now me, the girl, and some other folks (I wasn't really sure who else) had already made plans to go to the movies. I told him he was welcome to come along, but he said he'd only go if "promising people" were going. What the fuck does that even mean.
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  32. Post #2792
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    Dennab
    January 2006
    40,352 Posts
    he sounds like a cunt.
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  33. Post #2793
    Huge Faggot #2
    GoldenGnome's Avatar
    November 2007
    5,149 Posts
    Your friend is a worthless human being. Jettison him into space.
    I was very good friends with him before these things surfaced. I don't know it's not something that's worth ending one of my closest friendships over.

    Edited:

    he sounds like a cunt.
    i know...

    i know...

    :/
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  34. Post #2794
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    Dennab
    January 2006
    40,352 Posts
    sometimes friends are cunts.
    try talking to him about it
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  35. Post #2795
    Juice_Layer's Avatar
    February 2010
    1,508 Posts
    sometimes friends are cunts.
    try talking to him about it
    I'm a huge cunt to my friend sometimes. I just see him too much and he whines like a girl about everything. Especially this girl he dated for like 3 months well over a year ago and he talks about how much he loves her still and shit lol. At first I was sympathetic, but a year is too damn long.
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  36. Post #2796
    Mobon1's Avatar
    January 2010
    2,625 Posts
    I was very good friends with him before these things surfaced. I don't know it's not something that's worth ending one of my closest friendships over.

    Edited:



    i know...

    i know...

    :/
    tell him to stop being a faggot himself

    if he's really your friend he'll just let it go and find something else to do, sounds like you're being his bitch and just taking shit from him

    Edited:

    it's not like you're committed to doing things with your friends lol
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  37. Post #2797
    Gold Member

    September 2006
    8,277 Posts
    The friendliness really shows in here
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  38. Post #2798
    Dennab
    June 2011
    1,254 Posts
    how to win her heart(panties)



    trust me,the ladies love coke!

    according to my observations,if they want to do something with you they will just ask to make out/snuggle or give hints a lot sooner than usual

    i know its bold to post that but i mean,coke does make it easier a bit like u both would be down for an activity, the both of you would drive to to the movies spontaneously and then buy some fireworks.
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  39. Post #2799
    Spirit Guide
    Big Dumb American's Avatar
    March 2009
    17,077 Posts
    Well, that's certainly one approach.
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  40. Post #2800
    diaoyudao shi ZHONGGUO de
    Disseminate's Avatar
    December 2007
    4,046 Posts
    sometimes friends are cunts.
    try talking to him about it
    "yo bro you are a cunt"
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