This thread strikes me with jealousy and sadness.
instead of being jealous and sad learn some things and use it as motivation to improve yourself in the art of love~ and eventually do it all
I broke up with that GF later, sadly, but we still remain friends. Never told her about it.
Don't be. You're probably just shy. I have some REALLY ugly fucking friends, and they even have girlfriends. It's all about going out there, making friends, and hit on 'em when the time's right.
It turns me on when my girlfriend sucks my fingers. (But that isn't on the first date, of course.)
i prefer ears.
makes me all tingly.
when my girl plays with my ears it absolutely drives me nuts (in a good way).
she's never sucked them though.
i personally like it when she twists my nipples and hums latin chants into my ear
the sound effect
when he's playing with them
oh my god
Agreed with ear kisses/whispers and shit, goddamn that is the ultimate turn on for me.
Sucking fingers is pretty hot too but for a first date, I'd say just remain wary. Don't invest too much emotion into her because tbh it sounds like she's kinda easy/more interested in just a sexual thing if she let you do that much to her on the first date. I've got nothing against sexual expression and intimacy but y'know, just take it easy so you're not disappointed.
Also, there isn't any linear path when it comes to dating. Human relationships are dynamic, and so by abiding to a "certain" order and limiting your actions according to that, you also limit yourself. There's no actual normal, natural or formal rule in a person's mind as to when he/she can have intimacy with a person.
I know this sounds weird, but since I'm an engineer it's REALLY hard to find attractive girls. There aren't any in the engineering school, and they're all in classes I can't get to. What do you guys think I should do? Parties aren't really an option because 1. not really my thing due to the fact that they're rolled five minutes in and 2. I don't want dumb eye candy.
Always make sure to have a fine balance between not being desperate and still trying to get the girl.
If you'r too desperate, you will be declared a creep within the week is over
If you don't do anything, chances are you will lose the girl.
Tried both things with my ex-girlfriend. She defintly had a crush on me, though i didn't hit on her at all at first. After that she kinda drifted away, and i became more and more desperate. The relationship ended with me calling her a whore while i was drunk. About a month after this, she asked me out for a walk. Too bad i decided to tell her i had a crush on her, for the first time in our relationship (All the other times i had been drunk).
We both just drifted away after this, and i don't think any of us have feelings for each other anymore.
Knowing that it's not even close to the truth, it makes one wonder... What made you come to the conclusion?
You also have to note that good-looks are very perspective. Except, of course, if you have poor hygiene.
The truth is, it's unrelated to looks.
I've been told on many occasions by many girls that they will refuse to date a guy with certain qualities about their looks.
I've also been told by my GF, who loves me to death, that if I was really fat she would never have dated me.
So you've been told.... Women also tell me, in Israel, they prefer hairy men, while I dated those girls and I shave myself almost completely.
Sorry to say, but most people don't know what they are looking for. "Good looks" is also a subjective term. As I have mentioned above, some might "not date" a hairy man, while some will. When there are so many factors of superficial beauty, it just loses it's appeal.
What really matter is confidence, and that's in a nut shell. I am glad to see a number of my students - fat and nerdy - get numbers and also date good looking girls.
Other than that, I quite agree with you, yet ForgottenKane also has truth in what he says.
The only part looks play in relationships, is how much effort you need to put in. By effort I mean, consistency. Good looking people may need less of it, and may be given more attention to, but both, ugly and good looking could fail equally on the first date or even getting her number.
Going to an Italians tomorrow night for my second date, I've booked it all up and I'm paying, been to the place to pickup a menu they do nice food for modest prices and they put on romantic music, the only downside is that I'm paying... beginning to believe single life had its benefits after all
the crazy cunt didn't say anything and later it turned out she stuffed five euros down my pants while we were making out so she that way paid equally
women man i tells ya
Me and my girlfriend just pay for each other, say we go into the shop she'll pick us up a few bits and next time I'll pay for her stuff and we'll lend eachother money if the other is short or if we're going out.
When I drive up to see her she'll normally pay for one of our nights out because it costs a lot in petrol.
i personally don't mind paying for shit, the only downside is when we eventually split i am always immediately aware how much i paid