Aw, fuck me. That girl is all bullshit. Fuck her. I'd tell her to fuck off. Suicidal my ass, man. She's just an insecure bitch that loves to believe in her own lies and excuses. Fuck people like her, man. She's just using you and you're all Mr. helpful and shit. The moment she forgets about you and start to be happy she'll just move on and leave you with your balls in your hands and all that "I've been there for you" and "she was there for me" isn't gonna mean shit.
Funny thing is, you're all worried shitless about her . She's manipulating you. She just wants you there so she won't feel guilty. Mark my words.
Move on and stop providing for her, she made her decision. You don't have to be in the front row seat to see her move on while you're hurt. You don't deserve that and you shouldn't torture yourself with that everytime she tells you she's going to kill herself.
Cause basically when she wants something out of you she's all "I'm gonna kill myself" and you come running like a dog. This way you'll never go far with her.
I'm sorry for the harsh language but that attitude from girls really pisses me off. I'm not telling you to be disrespectful to her, but just move on, man. There's nothing for you there. Don't be naive! She's taking advantage of your honesty and innocence.
Still I think that your atitude towards her gives you a certain chance. Just don't hit on her, you'll never know what will happen so keep doing whatever you're doing. Don't close any doors, just go on. You never know what the future will bring so I say, live your life, cause you're going through the right path to win her affection. At least you're already in her heart. That's not something everybody can brag about.
Now, about techniques to feel unatracted to a girl? Why would you do that. Might as well cut your own dick. I'm not saying to hit on her and flirt like crazy, it's just that there's no harm in having another chance with her in your position.
I don't think it's fair to reduce her suicidal behaviour/issues to immature manipulation, especially given how little information you know about her. In any case, I agree in saying he should move on.
Her problems are no longer your problems, T2L. You've already done more than most people would for her, eventually you just need to understand that you're your own person and you have your own shit to deal with. You can't keep letting someone else pull you down, even if it feels like you're being selfish.
Support her, sure, but if it's causing your grief and you're only left feeling helpless, you should probably reconsider your priorities within the bigger picture of your own life.
i told my ex i didn't want to talk to her for a while so she tried talking to me the day after and she sent me a video on facebook yesterday
when i got mad at her she said she didn't expect me to reply and she "needed" to share it with someone
Thanks guys. I'll try to keep that all in mind. In going to talk to her today, give her some of her things back, and then wish her the best of luck I guess. I won't be able to be in her life as long as she's with that other guy, and that kind if sucks.
I agree, there are also a lot of "attention whores" which use it as a last resort, depending on their despair. Although there are also a lot of true cases where such behavior led to suicide attempts and whatnot.
My girlfriend wants to give me a blowjob but she says it's stressing her out. I'm satisfied with the current state of our relationship so I told her that she can do that whenever she's ready, what could I do to help comfort her out of performance anxiety?
At least in this instance.
Not to say I think he's right, though. I knew more emotional "suicidal" guys when it was cool to be emo in 2006 or whatever, than girls who have ever been suicidal.
Godline if you actually gave some advice your presence would be much more welcome here, but seeing as most of what you do is come in here and criticize others for their views on what other people have said, it's not that welcome at all. need i remind you you've been banished from a thread before because nobody wanted you in there?
he was actually banned from these two threads. twice. and he's stated multiple times he doesnt take them seriously and that "anyone who does needs to get their head checked."
Yea im banned from the other social advice thread not banned from this one, so nooblett get your facts straight please. Doesnt really bother me if Im not "welcomed" it wont affect my decision on whether ill participate in a discussion or not.
Could have fooled me mike.
pretty sure you dont take any of the LA discussions seriously, so what does it matter which thread you were actually banned in. it's not like it's that i get annoyed that you dont take it seriously, but you dont take it seriously and you're a really awful poster
i remember johnnymo telling you it applied to this thread as well
nah im not gonna waste my time, but we could always just ask johnnymo himself
so what is it johnny?
that's not an observation, that's a conclusion reached by an observation.
SO IN OTHER NEWS...
Girl asked me to hang out at some point this week, it should be fun.
We now return you to your usual broadcast of people arguing over Seith's credibility and the meaning of sexism.
Pilita no ass
My girlfriend stressed over them too. Like to the point that she went and looked up a "how to give the best head" guide or something. Ironically, that made her more stressed because then she felt like she was doing everything wrong when she would do it, so she would just stop in the middle and look exasperated. We don't really mess with them anymore except when we 69, because that's more mutual and she's too distracted to worry about it.
My girlfriend is pretty good on the blowjob front, the best ones are unexpected afternoon blowjobs.