Girls and 'Aesthetics'
Women totally care way more about personality than someone's aesthetics.
I know it sounds like a generic 'don't worry timmy' phrase but it's truer than ever when you look past the surface. I'll elaborate with a case-study;
Confident aesthetic guy
Let's take a guy with zyzz-like aesthetics, hugely confident because of his looks, has no trouble carrying off a 'cheeky chap' persona, enjoys the company of women, probably thinks girls like him because of his 'aesthetics', upward spiral unless something bad happens which causes him to lose his crutch, such as disfigurement, at which point he'll be fucked.
Zyzz comes under this category.
Unconfident aesthetic guy
Let's take a guy who never got girls, was mega-desperate, decides to workout 'to get girls', but rather than start talking to them, making friends and being social, he continues being a socially awkward wallflower with zyzz-like aesthetics. Will he get girls because of his 'aesthetics' - no.
I know 2 guys who fit into this category, look around your gym and you'll probably be able to tell who this guy is.
Let's take a guy who's naturally good with girls, why? Aesthetics? No, unless he's genetically gifted to look good, and uses this as a crutch. He'll most likely realise that it's more what he says and how he projects himself onto other people that lets people like him, and at this stage, he'll always be able to get girls regardless of how he looks, if he's having a bad day, or on holiday. These easily count as men too.
Look at Jude Law in 'Alfie' for a good example of this.
'Pick up Artists'
There's also guys who are 'pick up artists' who excel in using pick up lines written by other people, said in a certain way, that gets girls interested in them, but I don't really advocate that cause it's fake and you don't wanna come running to a forum every time a girl texts you something cause you dunno what to reply, etc.
Look up a guy called 'Mystery' for a good example of this, lol:
Then there's people who generally don't give a fuck, and live in the present, they don't worry about getting laid all the time, they can hold interesting conversation, but when it comes to 'aesthetics' and 'clothing' they don't need any of these things as crutches cause they know that they're the same interesting person regardless of where they are or what they're wearing.
Look at all people you would consider men, actors off-set for examples of this and a lot of people you probably think are 'assholes' who get girls.
And then of course, there's the other % of guys who are just wallflowers and worry about not getting laid all the time, most will just reside to this fate and accept that they can never change and will be sad and lonely forever, which they might.
Look at most people who complain and get caught up on the past for this.
I personally believe that wanting to improve/change yourself is a very valid objective and should be strongly encouraged, but you need to improve all sides of the spectrum, not just become aesthetic and expect girls to come bending over and dropping their pants outside your front door every night.
Also, age doesn't make you a man by my definition, if you want to be a man you have to be a man, not be a boy with insecurities all the time, worrying about the past, present and future and generally living negatively.
You can have men that are 15 years old, and boys that are 32 years old, wearing make up over their moles, photoshopping their facebook pictures, and worrying about how they look.
Likewise, I highlighted 'women' in the title for the same reason because the boat is practically identical.
You might find some 'girls' who pretend they like guys for their looks or aesthetics or swear they'd never sleep with a guy who didn't have a six pack. This is ultimately down to their own insecurities if it's not just an attention-seeking guise.
Realistically any man wouldn't give a fuck about this, and focus on other hot girls/women because they know they can get laid already and don't spend their whole time worrying about one girl rejecting them.
Where the boat differs, is what Women/Men look for primarily and secondary and their desires.
Women crave attention in any form, so they focus on making themselves look as attractive as possible, ones who can't fulfill their attention desires, might retreat to places they can get a lot of attention from guys with little competition, such as internet forums like this one (notice how whenever a girl posts, a million guys decend on the thread to let her know how loved she is and how much they wanna bone her).
Men (who don't give a fuck) generally do nothing, live in the present, and strive for what they desire on a case-by-case basis. This has been bastardized in the last hundred years or so with the advent of men's fashion, male make-up etc, all designed to help you cover up any insecurities about your looks so you can be more confident. Do you think Spartans gave a fuck about a mole on their face?
In general, both want the opposite of themselves; So your average Spartan male of today's society, that is, the guy who has embraced being a man to it's full extent and is no longer belittled by dumb shit, will be fulfilled by the most attention-seeking, 'hot' girl around, and as a result they won't ever break up, because she'll throw shit at him day-to-day, and he'll continually resist it, as it is his nature.
This is why if you go out with a girl and stop being you, (ie, you change, crumble and start worshipping her, doing everything she says) you'll most likely not be going out very long, because you just dropped what being a man is all about and thus became undesirable.
So yeah, enjoy, but don't expect girls to come running just cause you got aesthetic (cause that's just attention seeking, aka you're being a girl).