This. I joined a server that sounds a lot like yours, and, got banned for telling someone to fuck off away from my base. as, they tried make it their home. The admin then proceeded to destroy my base wall by wall and then banned me for not saying sorry..
That wasn't my server; also, I had to attract attention to this thread somehow. Looks like I got the answer to my dilemma eh?
I did try to offer a completely unique experience to my small population, but it didn't catch on. Stream viewers just like to play with the streamers and thus once they got their bases set up and realized there was much less to do afterwards, they just quit and followed the streamer.
I just sit baffled by some servers that offer nothing but lackluster entertainment getting near full population. To be honest, I only started a server so I could bypass the bullshit of random wipes, admin abuse, and otherwise out of control of the player crap. I have played plenty of servers that do all of that crap.
I apologize for the harsh words and do not wish to come off as brash. I am just a bit embittered by Rust at the moment.