Well that's a good defense if I ever saw one.
I do agree with the OP's position and can understand his frustration..... however, in your defense (and it's not a great defense) You pay for the server, you for the most part, own it, thus you can set any rules you want and ban whoever you damn well please, even if you have no real justification for doing so.
Again.... that's not a really good defense for your position.
The problem is that it's a community thing, and you even said you built up a community on your server, but it won't remain a healthy community when you continue to pull actions like you did in the described OP.
If you have certain rules and guidelines for players to abide by, those players can't read minds and they need to be aware of those guidelines. Where you went wrong was not at least warning him of his actions first and just went straight to banning him from the server for something he wasn't aware of.
You noted your server as PvP, which does include KoS. I don't like KoS'ers and don't KoS people myself, but I accept that they exist and anybody can attack me at any given time.
The other problem is that you didn't note your server as "Friendly" which generally means that aggressive KoS'ing is frowned upon and new players are at least given a chance to start out. Just by going by your Server's name shown at the very top of this thread, I would have assumed it was a PvP server with a very good chance of having a lot of bandits, raiders and KoS'ers on it.
You were too quick and heavy with the Ban Hammer in this situation and it reflects on the community as a whole.
While you may have pleased those already regulars on your server, it gives the impression to everybody else that your server is run by hot heads who expect others to know its rules without any reference or explanations and will ban people without warning.
Trying to be polite after the evidence has already been presented showing your attitude and tossing swear words at the OP for clearly asking why he was banned (and even apologizing) and not even getting a second chance...... and then even trying to come in here and advertise your server for all of us to join it..... is just pretty sad.
Agreed... I pick certain servers with certain communities that suit me, with decent admins. Since buying this game back in Jan, I have only encountered one hacker and no abusive admins.
And I don't bother with official servers.
Not all admins are horrible and evil.
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Free of Whining?
"I've heard plenty of reports on you"
"Well sorry, to many complaints on u"
Sounds like they're not doing their job in that department..... sounds like plenty of whining to me.
Doesn't seem like that happened.... he was banned and then he got a talking to after the fact, which resolved nothing but him remaining being banned.
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Charge people a monthly subscription and I'll stop playing..... period.
And you can expect the population of Rust to quickly dwindle away.
If you want to have an experience that is controlled and regulated without as many hackers, KoS'ers, etc.... then all you need is to have passworded servers you can sign up to with decent admins.
There's plenty of servers out there with various settings and various types of admins and moderating.... if you want to keep all the undesirables out of your previous server, then have it password protected.
But that won't be coming along until the game is officially released.
I play the game as it was meant to be played, I don't KoS, I don't hack, exploit or cheat and I more than often help out new and existing players on the servers I play on.... I offer help, tips, pointers, guide people to safe areas, warn them of dangerous areas or bandits, KoS'ers, etc...... I enjoy this game.
But if there is a monthly subscription added to this game, I will stop playing instantly. I avoid any game where I have to pay for it right off the bat and then end up having to continue to pay for that game just to play it. It's a money grab and a rip off. I will quit based on principle alone. I bought this game knowing that it wasn't a monthly subscription / additional fees don't apply.
If that changes, then not only will I stop playing, but I'll even consider it borderline false advertisement for changing the product to something else I didn't originally pay for.
I suggested charging monthly only for the official server with a paid admin, learn to read.