I find it exceptionally amusing how you toss "sociopath" around because you have no real argument to form in terms of defending yourself or the rest of the staff.
Armchair psychiatrists are comical indeed.
Armchair psychiatrists are comical indeed, which is why psychologists such as myself frequently laugh at them. With that in mind, I'm going to post as psychologists, to others interested in the field of mental health.
I must have missed that bit, and cannot seem to find any instances of psychotic rage directed at myself within this thread.
Classic evasion tactic. "Tex posting psychotic rage directed at him," the pronoun him clearly refers to Tex. The psychotic rage is from this screenshot. You'll notice that EXILE displays evasion indicative of some sort of psychopathy.
By pretending he didn't understand the ambiguous statement (which is obvious in the context of calling EXILE a hypocrite), he's able to avoid addressing why he didn't bat an eye at the above screenshot and yet hypocritical called a single throwaway line a juvenile attempt at humor.
Again, strong indicator of mental illness. This particular behavior is known as narcissistic injury. When a person with NPD or narcissistic traits becomes frustrated or feels cornered, it causes a deep injury to their ego. EXILE cannot consistently explain why he pees his panties over one "juvenile" statement but comes down on Tex for addressing seven total juvenile statements. It's basic denial, and one will note that it's listed under the pathological defence mechanisms for a reason.
Mooj posted: Doesn't seem to mind the "grade-school, prepubescent insults" of Evesest throwing out "dorks" in the OP (because people over twelve totally say that!)
An ignorant, blanket generalization formed entirely with the sole intent to shift attention onto the OP and off of him and his administrator pals. Classic.
Again, this is classic onus-shifting, again because of narcissistic injury. The narcissist, in this case EXILE, has difficulty coping with accusations of hypocrisy. The purpose of my statement was to highlight EXILE's own behavior, not Evesest. A normal, well adjusted human being understands this.
However, because he has difficulty explaining away his inconsistent behavior (reacting favorably towards one instance of juvenile insult and disfavorably towards another), EXILE attempts to shift the claim away from its original purpose (highlighting his inconsistent behavior) to something else. Highly inconsistent behavior such as this is indicative of personality disorders, especially (Axis II) Cluster A and (Axis II) Cluster B disorders, the Odd and Dramatic personality disorders.
Multiple individuals have provided statements that form a pattern of doubt, leading to the burden of proof now being on you. I suggest you spend more time educating yourself and less time building gazebo's on the side of the road.
A total of three of those individuals were removed from the server in the same group. Unsurprising that all three would contact each other on Steam at the same time, if they weren't already friends. It happens that friends join the server en masse and when one of them fucks up the other three freak out.
These same individuals have also posted highly inconsistent statements, including Evesest's changing his story multiple times. There is no reason for an individual to treat their claim as credible. It's apparent to the mentally sane (as in, those who unlike you don't display narcissistic traits, if not outright NPD) to understand that when "multiple individuals" are forced to alter their story, they are not in any way believable.
Meanwhile, because you apparently suck at statistics as much as you suck at philosophy, rhetoric, and psychology, your total amount of "multiple individuals" still sits at slightly less than 1% of our total player base.
In case you can't tell how toweringly stupid you are, a 1% dissatisfaction rate is phenomenal.
Someone without prior knowledge might make the assumption that it was simply a toggle or what have you, and not a set of gear that you equip (which, frankly, is an absurd implementation to begin with).
And so what? Your moronic claim is now that servers are rife with admin abuse because somebody doesn't understand how admin tools work? Him not understanding that he's wrong does not mean he's magically right, you total and complete moron.
He explained that quite clearly above, I suggest you pay attention.
Really? He explained how his story went from him being killed to him being killed and kicked? Nope, he just added the kicked part when it wasn't in his OP. And curiously only added after it just so happened to turn out that admins are granted the ability to go invisible. Why, once he found out that admins can turn invisible and it's not, in itself, abuse, then all of a sudden -- as if by magic -- Ubernaga did something that was abusive, that he just totally forgot to mention.
Also he has never once explained why he didn't simply press Print Screen a second time. It's not that hard. Press Print screen, past your screenshot. You get kicked, press Print Screen again. Oh, that's right, him getting kicked only magically appeared after it turned out invis armor isn't ABOOS!
Only he doesn't, and has other people backing up his initial statements with accounts of their own that are quite similar to his own experiences. The only people here that are saying you are not doing anything wrong are yourself and the other administrator who chimed in above.
How convenient.
Yes, two of them kicked (and not banned) from the server at the same time as him for being disruptive. Also, amusingly enough, you discount andypopz.
The other reason you aren't going to see people posting is that, unsurprisingly, the only types of people who want their narcissistic grandiosity validity are the types to post complaints. I know you're slightly dim, but do you seriously believe that it's credible to claim that people who are actively playing and enjoying the server will, for no reason whatsoever, come over here during their place session to chime in in defense? That's moronic, even for you.
Also less than 1% dissatisfaction, forgetting that part. Well, not forgetting... avoiding.
You have the gall to make a comment about the OPs age above (yet another underhanded jab), while you yourself are likely not even out of your teens as evidenced by your repeated use of such terms.
Again notice the inconsistency indicative of a deep-seated psychopathology in EXILE. Notice the statement "you have the gall to make a comment about the OPs age above" as if this is some sort of high indicator of anti-social behavior.
But also compare and contrast EXILE's earlier statement:
More grade-school, prepubescent insults.
In other words, in EXILE's mind, it's perfectly acceptable to make comments about age. Replying to that comment about age, however, is "gall". Again, the important thing to note is that the context is EXILE's own. Nobody began discussing age until both Evesest and EXILE made statements about it.
The belief that an individual alone is fit to decide what is and is not acceptable behavior, and (more importantly), to do so inconsistently -- that is, it is acceptable for them to do so, but for you to do so even in reply to their own argument is unacceptable -- is highly indicative of an abusive personality type. Again, precisely the type of player we actively seek to ban. We aren't interested in playing host to spousal abusers, elder abusers, child abusers, or any other form of person who thinks "I CAN TAKE A SWING AT YOU, HOW DARE YOU SWING BACK?" who can sit behind a keyboard.
They are irrelevant. You certainly wouldn't post screenshots of yourself porting in and killing a player while you had god mode on, would you? Which is the subject of discussion here.
On of the subject of deep-seated psychopathology, this is by far the most interesting statement to dissect. David Von Drehle wrote a book called Among the Lowest of the Dead about inmates on Death Row. Among his interviewees was Ted Bundy, who stated that he couldn't understand why people would miss individuals. Because this valuation of human life was meaningless to Bundy, he perceived his victims as being meaningless and without value to all people.
It's happening here with EXILE as well. Because, like Evesest, he's highly narcissistic and has a deep-rooted desire to feel power over others (as well as a deep-seated desire for revenge and control), he doesn't understand that those he wants to feel power and control over do not feel the same. Its meaningless, the aspects of his personality are projected onto all people.
To a normal, mentally healthy, well-adjusted individual, they would look at my gazebo-building as something a power-tripping admin wouldn't do. Power trippers do not build tiny structures, they build large structures that reflect their internal grandiosity. Power trippers do not spend their time building gazebos, they spend their time abusing others. Etc., etc. Not only is the fact that he can't recognize this as such extremely telling (what person who wants to feel a deep-rooted desire for control over others spends their time building tiny structures for public use when they could be griefing a large player base?), but the fact that it is utterly meaningless to him is even more telling.
Though it's an unsurprisingly result. At a playerbase in excess of one million, the amount of maladaptive personalities will be in tens of thousands. EXILE is one of them.
Anyone with admin on a server could produce screenshots like that in a matter of minutes, easily. I'm very familiar with the tools and functions available to owners/admins through both RCON and all of the available modding APIs.
And yet you failed to recognize the most important aspect behind it; the psychology, and the total lack of understanding and empathy it demonstrates in you.
You really think that somehow, in your twisted mind, this thread is painting your server in a positive light? Wow.
It most definitely does. Because your understanding of psychology is as much a joke as everything else that waddles through your head, let me tell you what I'm deliberately exploiting: In-group favoritism.
We have two diametrically opposed in-groups, each an out-group to the other.
You have people like you and Evesest, who feel a deep-seated need for control and revenge. Instinctively, you hate active admins, you hate being challenged, you have no actual authority yet desperately wish you did, and when a person like you looks at a post like Evesest's, you can't help but see yourself in him (as do others), instinctively becoming defensive of your own maladaptive behavior. That's your in-group, and my out-group. You are exactly the types of people I seek to alienate from the server.
On the other hand, you have people like me, who want players who understand that Rust is a game, who want players to take risks for the thrill and the fun, who enjoy having an active admin. They see Evesest making obvious fuck-ups and lies like changing his story, and you defending him doing it as if it was reasonable in your mind. They see the inconsistency in your behavior. They realize exactly the type of entitled cunts you and Evesest are. They know exactly the kind of person who gets banned from a server and then becomes determined to "take revenge". This is my in-group, and the exact types of players I seek to attract to the server.
Exploiting this in-group favoritism is extremely favorable for my server. If you were half as smart as your narcissism tells you you are, you'd recognize not only what I'm doing, but how and why I'm doing it as well.
Mooj posted: We don't want racists. We don't want homophobes. We don't want cheaters. We don't want ragers.
Hate is completely acceptable though, as referenced above. The level of hypocrisy from you and the other administrator is astounding, to say the least.
This is another interesting one, like Among the Lowest of the Dead referenced above. The astute reader will by now have noticed a pattern to EXILE's behavior. This is, again, deeply indicative of a psychopathology.
First, for those of you not aware, this is a classic example of a distortion campaign. Distortion campaigns are highly maladaptive traits, only the most off-the-rails, unhinged, physically, emotionally, or psychologically violent individuals engage in them.
One of the primary methods of an attempt at a distortion campaign is what's known most commonly and most simply as twisting words. For example, the above statement. Notice how EXILE's has attempted to present my statement as if I were saying hate on my part, directed at others was acceptable.
A normal, mentally-healthy, well-adjusted individual would understand my statement for what it is: That because highly mentally disturbed individuals like EXILE and Evesest despise me, I consider this a form of flattery. Why would I want Evesest, with his psychotic need to feel revenge for his narcissistic injury, to feel anything in kinship with me? Why would I want EXILE, with his textbook abusive personality, to feel anything in kinship with me? Again, a normal, mature, well-adapted individual understands that these people are undesirable, and best removed from one's life.
As a bonus little chocolate sprinkle on the cake of whatever is wrong with EXILE's noodle, we have his ostensible hatred of hypocrisy. Never mind that I displayed no actual hypocrisy and he's simply lying (because that's what maladaptive personalities do). We'll put that aside for now. But notice how that same ostensible nose-turned sniffling about hypocrisy comes on the heels of his own contradictory behavior, such as being outraged at my "gall" for making an age related comment in reply to an age-related comment he actually ignored?
Now, many of you might not have a degree in a field of mental health, but this is genuinely interesting stuff, of what goes wrong with a person's little inner voice and how that voice convinces itself it's still in the right.
I've personally never played on your server, but after reading this thread I wouldn't even consider it.
This is EXILE's narcissism talking. You'll notice he actually believes he's so special that I should be offended or feel some other form of deprivation for him not playing on my server. He actually believes that we pay for the server for the glory of feeling graced by his presence, and that we're somehow losing out.
Try to imagine this situation playing out in real life:
"FUCK YOU, BUDDY."
"Nah, fuck you."
"WHAT DID YOU SAY TO ME? WITH AN ATTITUDE LIKE THAT I WON'T COME TO YOUR PARTY."
Pretty funny, right? He actually believes he's leveled some sort of threat here, that he's the center of attention and we're losing out by not having him. But what's interesting here isn't the narcissism in particular, which we've already seen a plentiful pattern of. What's more interesting is that, even though I've point blank told him I'm using him to alienate other players like him to proactively keep my server clean, his narcissistic tendencies are so overwhelmingly strong that he's still forced to reply with his hilariously empty threat.
Wow, that was long. But, in its own way, fun.
Don't worry, EXILE. We have no problem populating the server with people who laugh at you and Evesest.
Edited:
Mooj posted: Again, players. I can't promise you I won't abuse. You will be forced to pass by my gazebos. You may even use them to cook chicken in. At some point, I will tell you I love you.
That a pretty good admission to me.
Ladies and gentlemen, the kind of player who is unwelcome on our server: The kind who thinks that walking past a gazebo the admin built, possibly using it to cook chicken, and having the admin tell you they love you is "abuse of power".
If you got the joke - "I BUILD GAZEBOS, CLEARLY ABUSE!" - congratulations, you aren't a tit.