So I actually have a team. We regularly demolish folks. And I'd like to agree with the OP: it's way too hard to get up and off the ground at the moment.
Here's why this is a problem, despite our massive advantage: whenever we raid a group about equal to our size and finally raze them to the ground, they leave the server. A server with ~30-50 pop may have 2-4 "us sized" groups, or one much larger (and usually entirely n00bish) group. So the pattern has been "amass goods >> build bases and weapons >> raid the crap out of other groups" which either ends in someone accusing of hax0rs, an admin deciding that they're suddenly PVE, or the server completely empties after we're done trashing everyone in it, at which point we move onto another server.
I think removal of the military-grade weapons will go a long way towards helping -- it would be nice to know that if you and your buddy got the jump on someone with a pipe shotty, you'd actually have a chance to be back up and running after a major loss. The curve between "kevlar/m4" and "leather/pipe shotty" at the moment is way more severe than it should be, which means revenge, even as a group, is pretty amazingly difficult to achieve.
And it isn't really fun after a while. I really don't like meeting new people, forming rivalries, good natured ribbing in chat, and then suddenly losing that rivalry to QQ. I also think that server dilution plays greatly into this: there's not a lot of incentive to stick with a server after you've been kicked in the teeth.
that is a pretty accurate description , when i get all my stuff raided , i lose the tangible reason for staying on a server , research takes to long to have anything meaningful researched in the 1 - 2 days it takes to get raided.
so i just move along to a new server . it is less about qq , and more about "what is keeping me here?"
i mean once you have been raided, then the people who raided you know you are in the area. they will keep coming back if you rebuild. and having to start from a rock is not fun. plus if some one raided you , it kinda means some one already has everything on the server.
much easier to just go to a freshly wiped server than have to struggle all the way back to where i was avoiding m4 + Kevlar groups of 10. fuck that noise.
i mean sure i could build a house with 10 metal doors, but such an obstacle is completely inconsequential to a group of established players.