Still wanna know what jacksfilms is.
Still wanna know what jacksfilms is.
I respect that GID's a bit strange to some, but that guy's just a complete jerk!
I would say however, if that's literally how your girlfriend is I'd question it a bit aswell.
I didn't even have to read far through the "Shit That Gets You Mad" thread, why does jerks like him even have the right to live?
But I'm going to talk to Hoodoo and her brother once I'm home, so I probably should be quiet for now.
It just really gets to me, sorry. :(
...Aaaaaaand always look on the bright side of life~!
Welp. Here goes nothing.
Have my eyeliner on, my mascara, my hair is all prettied up.
I'm going to make a presentation on transgendered people's portrayal in the media, and I'm going to come out to the whole class.
Wish me luck.
Back. I was the last person.
Was nervous as hell, felt like I had low blood glucose even though I was pretty high at the time. I was that nervous. But it went great. I said I chose that particular topic because I, myself, was trans. A few wide eyes, and a smile from a guy who already knew.
My professor said the topic was a really good one, and I presented it well, and that I was brave for telling the whole class.
A guy even invited me to go have drinks with him a few other guys, but I had to decline because I really really had to work on an art project that's due tomorrow. But he's gonna add me on steam. :3
Overall a very good day. Stressful, but still great.
Oh, and one of the girls in my art class group said I looked pretty today.
I guess she figured it out from my facebook. :D
I reported it and megafan is reading the thread, no ban yet though.
That entire topic.. I need an expression beyond facepalming, because it just won't do in this case.
Okay, there's a version of Nair created specifically for facial hair. And it actually works. I have to use a lot of it, and it has quite a burning sensation, but this is so much better than shaving.
What does it mean when a parent is gatekeeping you?
Going to see my dad today. I haven't seen him in about a month. He lives rather close so that's not the reason. I don't hate him, but I really dislike spending time with him so we never talk and I do all I can to not to keep contact with him. Aka I rather walk 10km in the night than call him for a ride(He would come) or instead of asking him for money I either don't eat or wait that my mother can give me some. Also, I told mother not to tell him about my trans situation so he doesn't know. He still thinks I'm a normal straight teen (Since I had a girlfriend, he was really proud), but since I have been full-time wearing girl/girlish clothes for about two weeks I'm going to see him today in girlish clothes.
I kinda hope he comments on it so I can start a talk about me not identifying myself as a male and I wish I could be more androgynous. I have no idea how he will react, but I think he will be rather disappointed. The reasoning would be that this way I can come out to my whole family (like my dads mother, sisters, brothers etc.) since he talks about everything for them so they would hear about it.
He has been a good father, but we just don't get on well together.
God damn when did this thread get so active
Also what are this threads thoughts on "tomboys". Not sure how to really explain. I like having my long "girl hair" and looking like a girl and such but I dress in guys clothes most of the time. Nor do I wear makeup (it's just not "me" I think is the best way to put that) I feel fine with it myself but my Mother told me in the future if I want a job I won't be able to unless I act more "girly" and wear makeup. Like what the christ? Is society that sexist that if I don't wear makeup and skirts to work every day I'm going to be penalised? I wear things like skirts sometimes but really only for my boyfriend or on special occasions.
Also holy tits you people in this thread are about a billion times braver than I could ever be
Well, its completely up to you how you want to look in the public. I understand how your mother sees the situation, but she can't force you to dress girly. You will get work. And if for some reason they would have given you the job only if you come up with makeup and tight clothes to be honest they don't deserve you.
And my opinion about this: Tomboys are adorable. I'm so jealous how "easy" it is to look boyish as a girl compared to how hard it is to look girly as a boy. Keep doing whatever you want and feel comfortable with!
Thanks for the encouragement, nice lady with crying Robin for an avatar (at least I think it's Robin)
And yeah, it's kind of like almost having a dudes mindset with my interests and things yet being alright with my body. It's odd but I'm not one to complain
That and I think it's easier for girls to look boyish because they can just look like younger guys I think. Unfortunately with guys it's harder to look girly after puberty it seems due to jaw lines/muscles changing and such.
(And good luck with your Dad today)
Heh, thanks, I just found a lovely gif and I actually found out who she is after I had had the avatar for some time.
Also, there is nothing wrong with you if you think you have a dudes mind set and you are ok with your body. Genders aren't binary.
Oh god, it's adorable how the pictures are synched.
Still giddy about yesterday. Had dreams about it where I did it again. Very weird.
Aww, thank you... c':
So I just found out my life's just hit the bottom, and my only real chance of survival's retirement. I don't even have a proper education yet! ;-;
Depression's a bitch, and I wish I had someone to care for me but I'm afraid of dating at the moment.
And you don't have to be dating to find people who care about you. Close friends/family work just as well
dfgsdfgdfs I hate your brother hoodoo :<
I'd come out but noone takes androgyny seriously here :(