1. Post #5641
    l l
    lmao
    Dennab
    December 2011
    10,758 Posts
    I thought metanar was a someone tolerable person... but I'm a bit speechless now.

    I thought this thread was for acceptance not bigotry?
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  2. Post #5642
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    Metanar's Avatar
    June 2009
    2,104 Posts
    A crossdresser is any man who wears women's clothing or any woman who wears men's clothing. Period. The reasons for it do not matter. They are a crossdresser either way.
    I don't know any words to describe "crossdressing fetishists"/"people who wear whatever clothing they like" so I have to subvert definitions
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  3. Post #5643
    Yandere Princess
    Alice3173's Avatar
    April 2010
    21,938 Posts
    How about just calling them crossdressers either way??? That's what they are. Their reasons for it should not matter to anyone but themselves.
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  4. Post #5644
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    Metanar's Avatar
    June 2009
    2,104 Posts
    it matters because one is a fetish that people do for sexual pleasure and one is an expression of yourself

    they are not the same
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  5. Post #5645
    Yandere Princess
    Alice3173's Avatar
    April 2010
    21,938 Posts
    It does not matter in any way. They both wear the opposite sex's clothing. That's the only detail that actually matters.
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  6. Post #5646
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    littlefoot's Avatar
    June 2007
    827 Posts
    then they don't fall under my definition of crossdressers

    to group people who wear whatever clothes they like with fetishists is wrong and way more backwards than my definition
    You haven't said anything that justifies thinking the way you do, shouldn't that suggest to yourself that it's some flawed thought and is best kept to yourself?

    That is of course assuming there's nothing that could change your idea that crossdressers r bd bcus thy'r only n it 4 the sexs. If you're changing the definition of what a crossdresser is to include whoring themselves out then okayyy mann.
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  7. Post #5647
    YOU AIN'T NEVER HAD A FRIEND LIKE ME
    The Genie's Avatar
    August 2006
    10,011 Posts
    All this arguing just for wanting to take "T" out of the title.
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  8. Post #5648
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    Metanar's Avatar
    June 2009
    2,104 Posts
    as I have before I have to change the definition to clarify my point

    crossdressers who only do it for sexual pleasure are not people I want to waltz in and talk to, I don't have a problem with them I'm just not interested in being a part of their group, just like I don't want to be a part of a <insert other fetish> group

    crossdressers who do it to express themselves are just normal people are not covered by what I'm saying

    the fact is I prefer this thread because it's filled with people who have to face prejudice and overcome it together, unlike definition 1 up there
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  9. Post #5649
    Certified Catgirl Maid
    slayer20's Avatar
    January 2006
    9,275 Posts
    What if we do it for both?

    I mean, I have my fair share of sexy girl's dress up clothes...

    Edit: I actually haven't been reading please ignore me.
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  10. Post #5650
    Yandere Princess
    Alice3173's Avatar
    April 2010
    21,938 Posts
    the fact is I prefer this thread because it's filled with people who have to face prejudice and overcome it together, unlike definition 1 up there
    Um, you're actually wrong about that? They might not have to face prejudice that's as serious as your second definition but they still get discriminated against.
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  11. Post #5651
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    June 2007
    827 Posts
    Edit: I actually haven't been reading please ignore me.
    If only I was that lucky.
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  12. Post #5652
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    June 2009
    2,104 Posts
    Um, you're actually wrong about that? They might not have to face prejudice that's as serious as your second definition but they still get discriminated against.
    if they're doing it for sexual pleasure it's not an integral part of their life

    if it is then that's a different problem altogether

    IF they are just doing it for that, then they shouldn't be put in situations where discrimination is possible

    work? why would them crossdressing come up at work if they just do it for kicks, I would hope they're not going to work and crossdressing to get kicks

    the only situation I can think of in which they would get discriminated against is either: out in public or if they get found out by parents or their girlfriend or something I don't know

    going out and doing sexually pleasurable things in public is off anyway, and the second situation is a risk taken by anyone who has any fleeting interest in sex and watches porn or does anything sex related whatsoever

    Edited:

    it's not a major problem for them, it doesn't cause them grief (in fact it causes them pleasure), and I don't understand how you can so fundamentally misunderstand what I'm trying to say as me just disliking them
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  13. Post #5653
    Sphene
    Qaus's Avatar
    September 2010
    10,770 Posts
    holy fuck PLEASE STOP
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  14. Post #5654
    Yandere Princess
    Alice3173's Avatar
    April 2010
    21,938 Posts
    it's not a major problem for them, it doesn't cause them grief (in fact it causes them pleasure), and I don't understand how you can so fundamentally misunderstand what I'm trying to say as me just disliking them
    If they don't keep it secret, they will get discriminated against by plenty of people therefore it will cause them grief. And we're not misunderstanding you, what you're saying is just flat out stupid.
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  15. Post #5655
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    Metanar's Avatar
    June 2009
    2,104 Posts
    holy fuck PLEASE STOP
    fine I'll keep my reasons for not wanting to post in a bloody thread to myself

    just know that I don't hate anyone here for who they are

    there are people I dislike for other reasons but I'll keep those to myself too

    (User was banned for this post ("Idiot / Trolling / Shit posting" - Asaratha))
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  16. Post #5656
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    June 2007
    827 Posts
    it's not a major problem for them, it doesn't cause them grief (in fact it causes them pleasure), and I don't understand how you can so fundamentally misunderstand what I'm trying to say as me just disliking them
    You're the one that's not understanding and It's getting to me that I'm not able to get the point across.

    Edited:

    fine I'll keep my reasons for not wanting to post in a bloody thread to myself
    Please?
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  17. Post #5657
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    July 2006
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    Um, you're actually wrong about that? They might not have to face prejudice that's as serious as your second definition but they still get discriminated against.
    Actually I'd say that they face just as much prejudice, if not more, than LGB. With all the bullshit surrounding legally changing one's gender, if the person is question is straight (assuming they're of their chosen gender), they fall under LGB prejudice AND transgender/transsexual prejudice until they can legally change their gender. Same goes for discrimination.

       Also this portion is continuing the argument a little so please ignore it, but: Metanar, you realize that 90% of the posters in the CD/TG thread are legitimate transsexuals or doing it for nonsexual pleasure (or at least don't make it obviously sexual if it is)? The only "fetishizing" of the posters comes from transphobes and bigots from outside the thread.   
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  18. Post #5658
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    June 2009
    2,104 Posts
    Actually I'd say that they face just as much prejudice, if not more, than LGB. With all the bullshit surrounding legally changing one's gender, if the person is question is straight (assuming they're of their chosen gender), they fall under LGB prejudice AND transgender/transsexual prejudice until they can legally change their gender. Same goes for discrimination.

       Also this portion is continuing the argument a little so please ignore it, but: Metanar, you realize that 90% of the posters in the CD/TG thread are legitimate transsexuals or doing it for nonsexual pleasure (or at least don't make it obviously sexual if it is)? The only "fetishizing" of the posters comes from transphobes and bigots from outside the thread.   
    I did not know that as I haven't read the thread since the first page, and I am genuinely sorry if I have offended anyone. I'm still not going to post in it though.
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  19. Post #5659
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    July 2006
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    I did not know that as I haven't read the thread since the first page, and I am genuinely sorry if I have offended anyone. I'm still not going to post in it though.
    So maybe you shouldn't make assumptions about a group of people?
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  20. Post #5660
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    Metanar's Avatar
    June 2009
    2,104 Posts
    So maybe you shouldn't make assumptions about a group of people?
    I didn't make assumptions. Everything I said I stand by. If you understood my argument you'd understand that. For a group of people who apparently want to stop talking about this you guys seem to really want to keep talking about this.
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  21. Post #5661
    Murr purr and stuff!
    Nintendo-Guy's Avatar
    November 2007
    35,159 Posts
    I'm still not going to post in it though.
    you make it sound like anyone wants you to post there after what you said
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  22. Post #5662
    Sphene
    Qaus's Avatar
    September 2010
    10,770 Posts
    aaaaaa it's starting again.
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  23. Post #5663
    Gold Member
    Metanar's Avatar
    June 2009
    2,104 Posts
    you make it sound like anyone wants you to post there after what you said
    that really means a lot coming from you

    why are you bothering
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  24. Post #5664
    Kawaii Member
    CheeseMan's Avatar
    July 2005
    16,914 Posts
    that really means a lot coming from you

    why are you bothering
    ok seriously 1) stop or 2) stop because this is just trolling now and I'm gonna start reporting if this shit is kept up any longer
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  25. Post #5665
    Certified Catgirl Maid
    slayer20's Avatar
    January 2006
    9,275 Posts
    Sometimes I wonder if I'm even transgendered.

    I don't know what I am. I crossdress and what not, and I've talked with my mom about taking HRT, but all in all I feel like I don't care what gender I am. I just feel "neutral" to everything. I mean, sure, I want to BE a girl, but it's like I'm also ok with being a guy.
    I'm also not attracted to guys, just girls. But I also want to be a girl. That just makes it even more weird when trying to explain myself to someone.

    What am I?

    Edited:

    slayer used Subject Change!

    It's super effective!
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  26. Post #5666
    Tea
    Dennab
    December 2008
    4,084 Posts
    oh lgbtpbbqablt thread, always a good source of amusement
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  27. Post #5667
    roar
    Calkkuna's Avatar
    January 2008
    13,171 Posts
    Sometimes I wonder if I'm even transgendered.

    I don't know what I am. I crossdress and what not, and I've talked with my mom about taking HRT, but all in all I feel like I don't care what gender I am. I just feel "neutral" to everything. I mean, sure, I want to BE a girl, but it's like I'm also ok with being a guy.
    I'm also not attracted to guys, just girls. But I also want to be a girl. That just makes it even more weird when trying to explain myself to someone.

    What am I?

    Edited:

    slayer used Subject Change!

    It's super effective!
    How old are you
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  28. Post #5668
    howling techie's Avatar
    March 2010
    1,983 Posts
    Woo, added someone on Skype for a quick first chat, and we end up talking for nearly 5 hours, until about 4am talking about stuff. We didn't even get round to planning the meet up next weekend.
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  29. Post #5669
    Sphene
    Qaus's Avatar
    September 2010
    10,770 Posts
    Sometimes I wonder if I'm even transgendered.

    I don't know what I am. I crossdress and what not, and I've talked with my mom about taking HRT, but all in all I feel like I don't care what gender I am. I just feel "neutral" to everything. I mean, sure, I want to BE a girl, but it's like I'm also ok with being a guy.
    I'm also not attracted to guys, just girls. But I also want to be a girl. That just makes it even more weird when trying to explain myself to someone.

    What am I?

    Edited:

    slayer used Subject Change!

    It's super effective!
    http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Girlfag_and_guydyke
    Terminology is cool.
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  30. Post #5670
    Resident Dick Master
    mikeyt493's Avatar
    September 2008
    38,133 Posts
    Omg guys who even cares wow

    Lets change the discussion to boys boys are nice i like boys!
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  31. Post #5671
    Gay Member #2
    DigitalySane's Avatar
    June 2008
    3,886 Posts
    i like boy dicks.
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  32. Post #5672
    Go Shuya! You can do it Shuya!
    Dennab
    December 2005
    5,411 Posts
    boys are nice

    especially ones called Robert


    near Winchester
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  33. Post #5673
    l l
    lmao
    Dennab
    December 2011
    10,758 Posts
    I like the word boy more than man

    but I feel like a pedophile for it
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  34. Post #5674
    Resident Dick Master
    mikeyt493's Avatar
    September 2008
    38,133 Posts
    yes my dads out time to rave to nicki minaj and such at inappropriately loud volumes
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  35. Post #5675
    roar
    Calkkuna's Avatar
    January 2008
    13,171 Posts
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  36. Post #5676
    Tea
    Dennab
    December 2008
    4,084 Posts
    yes my dads out time to rave to nicki minaj and such at inappropriately loud volumes
    you a stupid hoe

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  37. Post #5677
    hyper-articulate
    Roll_Program's Avatar
    October 2007
    11,908 Posts
    My boyfriend's landlord sent him an email saying he wasn't comfortable with "your "boyfriend" (he put it in quotes) staying in my house". He then referred to me as his "friend" for the rest of the email.

    Wow.
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  38. Post #5678
    Hello Handsome
    Dennab
    February 2010
    13,495 Posts
    yes my dads out time to rave to nicki minaj and such at inappropriately loud volumes
    oh my god she is horrible why

    i vote mikeyt for gayest fper 2012
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  39. Post #5679
    Sphene
    Qaus's Avatar
    September 2010
    10,770 Posts
    Nicki Minaj's music is similar to an elephant seal's mating call.
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  40. Post #5680
    Resident Dick Master
    mikeyt493's Avatar
    September 2008
    38,133 Posts

    im dancin
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